Can I Be a Good Father if I Never Had One?

I was 4 years old when my father died. Now I’m a father myself.

My son and I after he turned one.

We Came to America for a Better Life

My dad was supposed to join us.

My mother and I when we arrived in the US

Life was Difficult Without My Father

It was even more difficult for my mother.

My father

I’m Afraid of Being a Bad Father

I’m even more afraid of not having the opportunity to be a father.

Luckily I had a lot of examples of fathers throughout my life.

Letting the Fear of Death Drive the Reason to Live

I’m a fairly healthy person, so I don’t expect to die soon. But general health means nothing to things like cancer and car accidents.

My son and I

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